I’ve heard this or a variation of this upset from infertility patients many times. You can avoid being the therapist who “gets fired” by seeking the professional training that matches the needs of this special and under served population.
Close to 20 % of couples in their childbearing years find themselves in an unwanted quest to build their family. Therefore, any therapist in general practice is likely to find him or herself sitting across from an man, woman or couple who is living in a life that has become unrecognizable in every way and is suffering emotionally.
For starters, it’s important to familiarize yourself with Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) approaches to pregnancy such as In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), Intrauterine Insemination (IUI), Ovum or Sperm Donation, Embryo Adoption and Surrogacy. This can be accomplished on the internet as long as you don’t presume to know what your patient is going through. There are many variations in protocol and you must recognize that no matter the approach, patients feel like they are in a science-fiction movie while their friends are conceiving the old-fashioned way. Rule of thumb: inquire, inquire, inquire. With gentleness and sensitivity you can make your way into a place where your patient feels understood.
That the medical treatment is an ordeal is one thing. But the emotional experience raises the agony exponentially. Doctors’ have the responsibility to enhance the patients’ “seeds”. Our responsibility is to inspire the patient to tend to their “soil” with mind/body self-care practices so that they can be in the most receptive place for the wonders of modern medicine to take root.
There is much to learn and a while back it occurred to me that with 35 years of experience in this field, I have much to teach. So on November 6th and 7th, 2014, you can register for a two-day mind/body training for mental health professionals seeking expertise with infertility.
Prior trainings were exceptionally well-received. Testimonials about Coping with Infertility: Two-day Training can be found on my website.
If you choose to attend, you stand to learn interventions which are not only highly effective, but also can be applied to a multitude of other traumas. This professional development opportunity is approved for 14 CEUs.
The CEU interventions will have practical application by addressing the following concerns:
Attendance is limited to 10 participants allowing room for individual needs to be met. Here is the link to more information — Coping With Infertility — or you can call me at 212-758-0125. It would be my pleasure to speak with you. If you prefer email, firstname.lastname@example.org will get you to me.