Language is a powerful. It shapes our perceptions and attitudes towards the world around us. While the term “adoption” is commonly used when referring to bringing animals into our homes and “adopt a highway” for environmental stewardship, it is important to replace these phrases with more respectful and accurate language. The importance of using respectful language in our relationships with animals, as well as in environmental initiatives, is of paramount importance.

The term “adoption” is often used to describe the process of bringing a new animal into our lives, whether through a shelter, rescue organization, or breeder. While it may seem innocuous, the term can carry unintended implications that are hurtful. “Adoption” typically refers to the legal act of taking on the responsibilities of raising a human child, which is fundamentally different from bringing an animal into our homes.

Using “adoption” for animals inadvertently trivializes the unique needs, the process and challenges associated with human adoption. It can also blur the lines between animals and humans, potentially leading to misunderstandings about the nature of our relationships with our animal companions. Furthermore, the word “adoption” masks the fact children are not possessions but human beings with their own rights and needs.

Respectful Alternatives when bringing an animal home:

1. “Rescue”: One alternative term that has gained popularity is “rescue.” This term emphasizes the act of saving an animal from a potentially dire situation, such as a shelter or an abusive environment. When we rescue an animal, we are taking on the responsibility of providing them with care, love, and a safe home.
2. “Companion Animal”: Using the term “companion animal” emphasizes the companionship and mutual benefit that humans and animals can derive from their relationships.

The Lack of Respect in “Adopt a Highway”:

While we strive for respectful language in our interactions. Another negative term in reference to adoption is “adopt a highway” commonly used for volunteer programs where individuals or groups commit to cleaning and maintaining a stretch of roadway. However, the term “adopt” in this context can inadvertently trivialize the seriousness of adopting a child.

Alternative Phrases for Environmental Stewardship:

1. “Maintain a Highway”: Using the phrase “maintain a highway” more accurately describes the action involved in keeping our roads clean and safe. It eliminates the potential for confusion between environmental stewardship and child adoption.

Conclusion:

Language matters, and when it comes to our relationship. Using respectful adoption language is a small but meaningful step towards recognizing their intrinsic worth. By embracing these respectful language choices, we can promote a more compassionate, empathetic society.
Patricia Irwin Johnston, MS, write and author is a pioneer in urging respectful adoption language (RAL).  She is an infertility and adoption educator and advocate with over 30 years of experience as both a volunteer .with local and national advocacy groups.